My Ramblings On Love.

Sometimes no matter how many times people tell you, "That guy is a jerk" or "You deserve better" you just can stay away. The heart wants what it wants, when it wants it and nothing is going to make it believe otherwise. Love seems to be an emotion that cause you to lose all reason and justifications. Love seems to cause you to only see that one person and everything you ever imagined with them. This isn't always a good thing and I think most people would agree with that, however when it is happening to you, you can't accept it.

It is hard to distance yourself from what your heart wants when your brain is telling you "no." I feel as though it takes years and years to get over a deep and meaningful love. I don't think love is something that just disappears over night, nor would I hope it would be. Love is a massive emotion that, while science has tried to reason, will never be understood. As much as science tries to explain it and pinpoint what triggers it, I don't believe you can. Of course you can point out the chemicals that occur because of love, but that is all in your brain, not your heart, and the heart is what actually loves. Don't you agree?

Love is a powerful thing that I don't think is easily understood or explained because it is different from person to person. It is difficult to accept because the world around you is telling you everything that is wrong with him but of course your heart is leading you a different way.

I think you should follow your heart because eventually if your heart gets hurt enough you will realize it, but until then telling someone to stop loving someone is like telling a kid they can't have candy.

How fickle my heart and how woozy my eyes
I struggle to find any truth in your lies
And now my heart stumbles on things I don't know
This weakness I feel I must finally show

Lend me your hand and we'll conquer them all
But lend me your heart and I'll just let you fall
Lend me your eyes I can change what you see
But your soul you must keep, totally free
Har har, har har, har har, har har

In these bodies we will live, in these bodies we will die
Where you invest your love, you invest your life

- Mumford and Sons

"Awake My Soul"